During my
morning practice on this Thanksgiving Day, I read a passage on resilience from Oprah's
book, 'What I know for Sure" (I shared below)
It made me
reflect on how I am grateful for the last two years as I made a decision to take
on fear. I found myself tired of
operating from fear based on peoples words or my wild thoughts.
What did I
do? I studied fear .. I leaned into fear and I got curious. I asked myself internally, what do
I need for myself to get beyond fear. .
in anything. I also asked, what am I
learning from fear? I came to the
understanding that when I and others are scared, and not feeling safe, we will
use words to create an illusion of battle or protection. I was experiencing this with myself and others.
So I bought
a couple of books - "Fear" Essential Wisdom For Getting Through theStorm" by Thich Nhat Hanh and Gabrielle Bernstein's book - May Cause Miracles. I read, reflected on each word that spoke to me every day for 40
days. Pretty powerful stuff.
So I offer
this, when you operate from fear . . stop and ask yourself, what do I need to
get beyond fear? and What am I learning from
fear. . then listen to the little voice
inside, reflect, be curious and study for YOU and see what you need for yourself to move beyond fear.
Happy
Thanksgiving. I am grateful for you.
Warmly -
Debbie
What I know for Sure - Oprah Winfrey
Every
challenge we take on has the power to knock us on our
knees. But what's even more
disconcerting than the jolt
itself is our fear that we won't withstand it. When we feel
the ground beneath us shifting, we panic.We forget everything
we know and allow fear to freeze us. Just the
thought of what could happen is enough to throw us off
balance.
What I know
for sure is that the only way to endure the quake is
to adjust your stance. You can't avoid
the daily
tremors. They come with being
alive. But I believe these experiences
are gifts that force us to step to the right or left in search of
a new center of gravity. Don't fight
them. Let them help
you adjust your footing.
Balance
lives in the present. When you feel the
earth moving,
bring yourself back to the now. You'll
handle whatever
shake-up the next moment brings when you get to it. In this
moment, you're still breathing. In this
moment, you've
survived. In this moment, you're finding
a way to step onto
higher ground.